Author Storytime at SPNS
We had a delightful Friday evening November 14, 2025 listening to author Ellen HS read her new book, Merry Claus and the Holiday Dash. It was novel to be at school at night, wearing pajamas, and enjoying cookies! As we hoped, alumni families joined us, too! For more details about the book and to purchase, Follow Merry
Preschool or Transitional Kindergarten
Here’s a great article on the topic from our sister school, Cupertino Co-op Nursery School
The Art of Letting Go: Supporting Your Child’s Growing Independence
Parenting often feels like walking a tightrope. We want our kids to be independent thinkers, yet watching them assert that independence can feel like a gut punch—especially when it comes in the form of “I don’t want to do this anymore.”
This is the tricky territory of quitting. Whether it’s piano lessons, soccer practice, or a beloved extracurricular, every parent faces the moment when their child wants to walk away. The question is: Do we let them?
The Lessons We’ve Learned About Quitting
Listening Matters:
When our preschooler announced she was “done” with dance class, our first instinct was to say, “But you love it! Don’t give up!” But after a little digging, we discovered she wasn’t enjoying the structure of the class anymore—she wanted more free movement. Listening showed us that quitting wasn’t about giving up; it was about finding joy.Quitting Is a Skill, Too:
There’s value in teaching kids how to assess when something no longer serves them. That doesn’t mean walking away at the first sign of frustration. Instead, it means reflecting on what they’ve learned and deciding how to move forward.The Right Kind of “Follow-Through”:
If quitting is inevitable, teach your child to finish strong. Whether it’s attending the final practice or thanking their teacher, these small acts build character.
When to Step In (and When to Step Back)
There are times when perseverance is the lesson, not the activity itself. But as parents, we need to recognize when pushing them through is more about our expectations than their needs. Supporting independence isn’t always easy, but it’s an investment in raising thoughtful, self-aware humans.